Do you want other people to like you too? Do you want to befriend popular kids, or successful people, or even famous people? Do you want to be the person everyone else wants to be friends with? Okay, you are telling about the simple trick that will accomplish all this. I want you to think back to the first day of high school as a toy where you were panicking and scared because you didn't really know anyone. And the only thing you really wanted was to be liked and accepted by other children. I have personally felt this way, at least. I can still remember seeing those popular kids, and thinking to myself, how happy and how fulfilling my life would be if I could just hang out with them. Or how excited I would feel if I could go to one of their exclusive parties. And then I could post pictures with them on social media showing everyone that I was one of the cool kids. Because I really wanted them to like me, I was always very cautious not to say the wrong thing around them, or to do something that I think they think is lame or stupid.
And I think this is how many people live their lives when they meet someone new, they put on their fake public persona. The things they say and the things they do will always affect who they are walking around with. And almost always they will keep some things secret about themselves. And the splashes of those sharp eggs are always there. I think most of us can agree here that we don't really like people who are fake, we don't like it when someone does a great job all the time, or when someone is our friend Pretends to, or pretends to sympathize with us. We don't like people who pretend to be someone they are not. But the irony of this is that, many people who say they don't like people who are fake are usually, to some extent, themselves. But most of the time they are not fake because they are trying to manipulate someone, or trying to take advantage of someone. They are getting fake because they are scared. They are afraid that if they express who they really are, their family will be disappointed in them, or that their friends will no longer want to talk to them. They are afraid that the world they live in will reject their authentic self, which is a very scary thought for most people. However the problem with this is that the longer you walk on those eggs, the faster they will become. And if you cannot be comfortable living your authentic self, then you will slowly start losing your identity. In fact, this is how most people are. The simple trick that will get people to like you is to consciously stop trying to get other people to like you.